Recently, the U.S. Department of Psychology at Harvard Medical School professor Laurie marriage expert, pointed out in a media interview, couples often "pointless dispute" is divided into two kinds. Learn to avoid and respond to such bickering, is that each couple must master the "Getting Started marriage skills."
Something for the distant quarrel. Mr. Hector and his wife Mary, hope that one day buying a big house. Every time I go better living conditions after their friend's house guest, the couple will bicker: what the future is to buy a house in the city with convenient transportation, or living in the suburbs of the city with fresh air? Their different opinions, each side. But the reality is, to their income, four or five years can not afford housing. In fact, if disputes do in a very long period of time will not be implemented, that is a waste of breath, is the best way to end. At this point the wise wife will say: "Do not waste your tongue, and so when necessary to discuss it."
Factual dispute. Hector and Mary go shopping. Mary believes that many so-called discount items, discount is not high. "No, do not discount the discount can call you?" Hector retorted. His wife insisted that this is just the cover to attract customers. You come to me a few words, a dispute is inevitable. Husband and wife have their own very hard to determine that you are wrong, but the other time, was furious. In view of this factual question, the best solution is: "We find a chance to see go."
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